Magnetic Resonance Image looking downward on Marty’s brain with tumor at left


On Saturday, March 4, Eddy and I visited our local FedEx store to work on printing marketing materials for the American Association of Pastoral Counselors. Seated at a computer station, I noticed a sudden sensation of losing eye focus, my head began moving side to side, my breathing changed to a rapid snort, the left side of my face began to sag and my mouth began to drool. I thought, “If I don’t get control of myself, people will soon notice me losing it here.”

About that time, Eddy said, “Are you all right? Do you need to lie down? What can I do to help you? What do you need?”

I thought to myself, “this is either a stroke or the effect of a brain tumor. I surely do hope this isn’t fatal. I must tell others to call for help and get me to an emergency room as quickly as possible.” I was having a practical clear thought, complete with appropriate words, but no ability to speak. I was able to reach out my right hand, grasp a pen and scrawl “S T R O K E?” on a sheet of paper.

Eddy said, “Do you want me to dial 911?” I was able to nod my head to communicate. Our FedEx helper intervened and an ambulance arrived in what seemed like two minutes.

I was able to speak very haltingly to the first responders: “Please take me to Providence Portland Center emergency room.”

“No, you have to go to the nearest facility, which is Oregon Health and Science University (OHSU) Hospital, in case you are in an active stroke.”

Within minutes, at OHSU Emergency I was lying in a CT machine for a quick brain scan. As I was being wheeled back to a waiting room I spotted six people clustered around a computer display with very serious expressions on their faces. I thought: “They are looking at my images because they are noteworthy — not a good sign.”

Soon, a doctor with “Jacob” embroidered on his emergency-room style jacket entered the room. He said: “You had a seizure. Seizure is the appropriate term for this event; your brain became overwhelmed and temporarily shut down. You are recovering from the seizure and will probably have no permanent damage. But we must address the question of what caused your seizure. I regret to tell you that we think the cause is a mass in your brain, which given your history is probably a melanoma tumor. Keep in mind that we now have several options to treat this and we need to collect more information to decide whether surgery, radiation, immune-therapy or a combination is best. It looks as though the tumor is accessible for surgical removal and we have an outstanding neuroscience department, and our chief surgeon is famous for his skill.”

I’m thinking, “this is beginning to sound like sales persuasion,” and said, ”thanks for the reassurance, but I’ve been preparing myself for this moment and I am not shocked by this news.”

I agreed to an MRI (Magnetic Resonance Imaging) to provide a better image, as well as to immediate IV medicines including anti-seizure medicine, steroids for brain swelling, and blood-pressure-reducing medicine.

As day 2 dawned, I was told to expect further procedures and was denied food or drink. I imagined being onboard a runaway train chosen for me by the luck of the draw, scheduled to disembark at an operating room very soon. I was angry and longing for consultation with my trusted oncology team at Providence for help with treatment. With Eddy’s help,  I rebelled and wrote an advanced directive stating that treatments at OHSU would be refused pending consultation from our Providence oncology team.

Staff on the NeuroScience floor in OHSU Kohler Hospital listened and responded with care, sustenance, and assistance in consulting with Doctors Page and Curti at Providence. By day’s end, we had a firm recommendation to proceed with craniotomy to resect the tumor.

On day 3, I was wheeled to a Functional MRI machine and given tests that created a map of areas of my brain around the tumor to help guide the surgeon in resecting the tumor without damaging important brain functions. By this time, I was deep in doubt that major surgery was the best option for several reasons: Recent advances in stereotactic radiation and immune therapy are improving outcomes for melanoma patients with brain metastasis, my tumor is larger and probably more involved than I had suspected, and the list of dangers on the consent for surgery form starts with bleeding, continues with functional impairment and ends with coma and death.

As day 3 ended, timely visits from family, friends, and fellow cancer survivors brought me to mental and emotional exhaustion. I awakened to mental clarity after midnight. Eddy and I arose and walked the circuit on the floor explaining our thoughts and feelings of fear and frustration. About 3 a.m., Eric, the night resident, awakened us and offered to discuss the surgery consent form, if that would be helpful. Ready to proceed, we completed the form and slept.

On day 4, the operating room awaits.

19 thoughts on “Progression”

  1. Wow, Marty. It seems like your brain was firing just fine at FedEx (except for speaking and drooling) from your coherent and detailed accounting of what happened.

    You are in my thoughts and prayers, especially tomorrow.

    Love to you and Eddy,
    Barb Leedy

  2. Dear Marty, you amaze me with your ability to give a complete and cogent description of this seizure episode and all that has transpired since. What an interesting journey. I am holding you in my heart and Will say prayers tomorrow for you and the surgeons.

  3. Marty, You are very brave. Your courage is a good example for us all. I am very proud of you. Love, Glen

  4. Marty, am holding you in the Light and look forward to your words after surgery.
    You are loved by me and so many others. XOXO

  5. OH My! Prayers and sympathies. What a roller coaster. We trust the right decisions are being made. Seems you are doing some careful discernment. Will be part of your prayer circle tomorrow, barring other emergency.

  6. Wow, Marty I am SO impressed with your clarity and (in writing at least) calmness during such a major event. I can only pray that when I am faced with these kinds of moments I can respond in the same way.
    My thoughts are with you and Eddy during this time. I will be at the prayer circle tomorrow. I understand the power of the prayer circle for you – I would want the same. It is also for all of us. It will be good to be in the presence of others working in concert as we hold you during this difficult time.
    Please let me know anything I can do to help support either or both of you.

  7. Thinking of you now, Marty. May this scary sounding surgery be completely success and your recovery smooth. ( Feeling positive because my Marty orchid is strong and healthy.)

  8. Marty,
    Your clarity during such stress is amazing. How critical is the ability to communicate – in whatever way we can find in the moment! You have a strong advocate in Eddy and yourself. Glad you were able to get consultation with your trusted oncology team at Providence.
    Thank you for sharing your continuing life story. Big hugs to you and Eddy.

  9. Dearest Marty and Eddie,

    Thank you for letting us know of your circumstances. May the blessings be. Thinking of you.

    Love and Light,
    Michelle Hascall

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